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A Final Farewell
In March of 1998, the call of
God brought us together as pastor and congregation. Eight and one
half years later, God is taking us on different paths. I have
preached 414 times during my years here. I have also conducted: 49
Funerals, 18 Weddings and 33 Baptisms
Those are merely statistics,
however. They can never adequately describe the pastoral relationships
that we have had and so many of which I shall always cherish.
Qoholeth (The preacher of
Ecclesiastes – often thought to be King Solomon) reminds us that there
is a time and a season for everything under the sun. Every change in
life precipitates a crisis. Every person, every nation, every faith
community will experience crises. Life is full of them. I believe it was
the noted theologian, Walter Bruggemann who said that every crisis in a
faith community, whether in the days of Abraham, or the Kings of Israel,
or in the days of the prophets, or in the days of the Apostles walking
with Jesus, or in the days of the early church, or in the church today
is first and foremost a spiritual crisis. In any situation in which the
family of faith is faced with change the great questions of Faith must
be raised and are often raised with great intensity and full of poignant
emotions:
How shall the people of God
pray?
To whom shall the people of God
turn?
How should the people of God
respond?
Where is God leading the people
of God?
In my experience, Spiritual
Development often begins with the simple realization that there is a
need to listen to God. In the days immediately after my battle with
bacterial endocarditis in 2002, I was not at all sure why God allowed me
to live. It was not at all clear to me of what use I was to anyone, much
less God. However, commitments made to officiate at several weddings,
including that of my son began to shape a sense of purpose. Shortly
thereafter, in a meeting of that year’s Officer Nominating Committee in
the parlor, I had a phone call that seemed to come from completely out
of the blue. It was a Pulpit Nominating Committee inquiring if I would
be interested in talking with them. I made a hasty comment that I needed
to return to my committee meeting and that I would call them back. I
did, was not immediately impressed, took a look at their Church
Information Form, talked with my wife, prayed, and decided the timing
was wrong. The decision was made rather quickly. In all that has
happened since I have sometimes felt that I just wasn’t paying attention
to God and sometimes I have felt that I did indeed hear Him correctly
and God was teaching me lessons in patience and steadfastness. The words
of Paul in his letter to the Philippians are easy to read, but so hard
to accept:
“The Lord is near. 6 Do not
worry about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with
thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.”
Sometimes God just seems too
slow for the circumstances. Yet, I firmly believe that Ecclesiastes is
right:
“For everythingthere is a
season, and a time for every matter under heaven:”Not so long ago, I was
contacted by a very large church in our denomination, some 7-8 times the
size of this congregation, and I thought, “Hot dog, patience has paid
off.” I exchanged some information with them. I read their PIF with
great interest trying to find all the good points. They had been looking
for 5 years so they must be anxious to call someone. During those 5
years they had developed a great number of lay lead programs. Then the
reality came to light. Their past senior pastor had left due to sexual
misconduct, Their beloved Associate Pastor in charge of Pastoral Care
programs had died, and a trusted lay leader the Church Treasurer was
indicted on embezzlement charges. When I heard nothing further for
several weeks, I knew that God’s wisdom was best and I did not belong in
that position.
One of the consistent threads
through most of the recent research into church development and
redevelopment is that one of the keys to successful church redevelopment
is a willingness to take risks, venture where logic may not lead.
Indeed, such a faith position may be the best faith response for
congregations and pastors seeking to renew the viability of faith
communities. This summer I had occasion at the Massanetta Springs Bible
Conference to spend some time with our General Assembly Moderator, Joan
Gray. I cannot ever recall in all my years as a Presbyterian a General
Assembly Moderator who had spent a career working as an Interim pastor
with small to medium size churches who were in crisis for one reason or
another. Joan Gray has done just that. She has a deep and abiding
conviction that the Spirit works in the midst of crisis among those
people of faith who are people of prayer, people of patience, and people
of courage, who are willing to take a risk that God is calling them into
ministry in difficult places in difficult times and that they may be
absolutely wrong in what they think they think they hear God calling
them to do. Spiritual Development takes prayer, reflection, patience,
persistence, and certainly courage.
Also, speaking at the Massanetta
Springs Bible Conference, was the Rev. J. Herbert Nelson II, an
African-American pastor who deeply impressed me by his courage and
faithfulness in leaving a 600 member congregation in Salem Presbytery to
undertake a church development project in Memphis. Things didn’t develop
according to projections in the first year. By the end of the year it
didn’t look like the congregation would be able to pay his salary. He
had just bought a home and moved his family. So what to do? He gathered
the elders together, they talked about the reality of their situation
and how different their dream looked then from what it had been. . Then
they made a pledge to walk by faith and tend to their spiritual
development. Great things have happened, not because of any one person,
but because they became a family of God.
So, my prayers for this
congregation will be that you will see this moment as an opportunity to:
Pray together
Reflect upon the whole of scripture together
Allow time for God’s Will to be heard
Be patient with one another
Respond to each others needs and the needs of your neighbors
Invite all people with whom you have contact to seek faith and
understanding
Build bridges where God may cross the abysses that so often divide us
from God and one another.
In this epistle of Paul's to the
Philippians, Paul is bringing the letter to a conclusion with these nine
verses that comprise the morning lesson. Paul is in prison and may not
be released. He is writing to his beloved congregation with a hope that
regardless of what the future may hold for him or them; they and he will
remain faithful to their calling. He has worshipped with them, he has
taught them, he has been a shepherd to them, and they have cared for
him. He asks for their prayers and he offers his in return. He also is
aware of some personality clashes that have occurred in that community
especially between Euodia and Syntyche and he asks for
their best efforts to reconcile these differences. Further, it is the
conclusion of many scholars that these verses contain a benediction of
Paul dating to the early days of the Christian Church.
It is one of the peculiarities
of the Greek language that the word for A FAREWELL in the sense of a
parting Blessing (Chairoo) and the word for REJOICE (Chairis) are
related. Hence, in this passage we could easily substitute the word
FAREWELL wherever REJOICE occurs and it would make a perfectly good
translation in the Greek. Paul may well have intended that double
meaning as he offers his blessing and benediction upon the Philippians
community that he may never visit again. I do not know where the future
will take you or me. . I close with my paraphrase of the words of Paul
to the Philippians.
4 Farewell and blessings in the
Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice. 5 Let your gentleness be known
to everyone. The Lord is near. 6 Do not worry about anything, but in
everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your
requests be made known to God. 7 And the peace of God, which surpasses
all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ
Jesus. 8 Finally, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is
just, whatever is pure, whatever is pleasing, whatever is commendable,
if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of praise,
think about these things. 9 Keep on doing the things that you have
learned and received and heard and seen in the teachings of Christ, and
the God of peace will be with you.
Amen!
Dr. David D. McDonald
IT”S UP TO US
There are 139,000,000 church members in America.
78,000,000 are inactive. This leaves
61,000,000 to do most of the work.
22,000,000 are over 65 and have done their share.
24,000,000 are under 21.This leaves
15,000,000 to do most of the work.
But 9,000,000 are “too busy.” This leaves
6,000,000 to do most of the work. But 2,000,000 are in school.
This leaves 1,000,000 to do most of the work.
But 750,000 are sick or disabled. This leaves
250,000 to do most of the work. But last week,
249,998 were away from home on business or vacation.
This leaves 2 people to do most of the work.
So, it’s up to you and me. If we don’t do it, it won’t get done!
March 23, 1987, The Presbyterian Outlook
Tuesday Evening Circle 6:30 at the home of Beth Brewer. Please remember
to bring your items for college students.
Pioneer News
We hope that everyone had a great summer! We are excited to begin a
new school year and new youth activities. Our first order of business is
to work on our Operation Christmas Child Shoeboxes. We have set a goal
of 100 shoeboxes for this years donation. We appreciate all of the
donations that we have received from the congregation and we will be
taking an inventory of items still needed. Please watch for this
information in the newsletter and bulletins if you would like to help us
to reach our goal. Some common items are toothpaste, toothbrushes,
combs, hair brushes, small toys, bar soap, hard candy and chewing gum.
Items may be dropped off at the church office. Please be sure to let
Tiffaney know they are for Operation Christmas Child.
Last year we held fundraisers to help the Halifax Humane Society. We
were able to donate about $300 to that organization. We are in the
process of choosing an organization that we would like to help this
year.
We appreciate all of the support that we get from our wonderful
congregation here at First Presbyterian Church. We are truly blessed!
If you have any questions or suggestions for our Pioneer group please
contact Fred & Karen Silva at 410-0007 or Susan Ferguson at 535-4735.
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